YOU DON'T NEED A WIFE

When I see some young men tell all and sundry they need a
wife, I wonder what they are talking about. Marriage is not for
loafers! It is not for a dummy upstairs! Some men are dead in
their thinking. They are not sharp, smart, proactive and vibrant!
They are dull, reactive, passive, lazy, visionless, dreamless and
goaless. These men don't need wives. They need Jesus!
A great husband is alive! Intellectually, socially, mentally,
financially and spiritually. He is active on all levels and
passionate about life. He has a great vision for his life and he
is doing all in his power to get there. He is proactive, hard
working, prayerful, energetic, smart, intelligent and brilliant at
what he does, he is not lazying around hoping some woman
would come to rescue him. He is in charge and command of
life! These men command a woman's respect any day any
time.
No woman wants to marry a man who doesn't know where he
is going or how to get there.
One thing pre-marital sex does for you as a man is, it saps
your strength, especially spiritual and mental strength! Most
guys who sleep around are dull! I don't know why in the name
of God, you must check into the skirts of innocent girls who
looks up to you! I don't understand why you will be involved in
pre-marital sex and still wants to be great. I am not talking
about fake greatness hyped on TV. I am talking about genuine
greatness recognized by God that gives you peace and rest!
Prepare to be a husband. A great husband is a leader. You
should know what you want out of life. That is when your wife
can be a helper to you. Be smart and intelligent. When your
wife asks you questions confusing her, you should be able to
give her wise answers. Be spiritually alive and active. Have a
personal altar which leads to family altar where you act as the
priest for your family. Your wife needs you to interceed and
pray for her when she is down and weak. Be a leader. She
needs to look upto you for direction. Be financially vibrant.
Work, save, give and invest. Your wife needs good food,
accomodation and clothing to feel complete as a woman. No
woman is happy with a stingy man who does not know his
financial responsibility as a man.
Respect in marriage is not automatic. You've gotta earn it.
Only boys fight their wives for respect. If you have to remind
your wife to respect you, it clearly shows you do not deserve it
in the first place. You don't demand for respect in marriage
you earn it.
Be responsible; be a role model, a leader, a godly man worth
emulating and your wife will respect you for it.
Marriage is not a joke. It is not for babies. Prepare well before
you get married so you do not spend the rest of your life in
disappointment, frustration, shame, pain and regret. God bless
you. Cheers!

COACH