Quit the rush, people.

In building a house, one of the stages that takes so much time, energy and materials of the building is the foundation, because the longevity of the house is determined by the strength of the foundation.

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Foundation in relationship matters.

Most people don't even have any. They find a girl today, fall in love after few minutes of contact, profess love immediately and in less than a week, they are dating. Same night, they have sex.

Next week, they break up, girl will cry and start the cycle again.

How does it sound?


Stop copying all those movies you see, they don't have so much time to tell you how to build a relationship under 90-120mins of the movie.

Take time to build the strength of the relationship, the foundation.

Find out about each other, likes, dislikes, beliefs, interests, circle of friends, purpose, goals, passion, personality.

Finding those out can take years, and it doesn't matter provided you want a long term relationship with that person that should end in marriage, so why the haste.

Within this period, provoke each other to anger, trigger off some wrong buttons on each other and watch the reactions, because one day you will live together forever so, you don't get surprised at the long run.


Whenever I say this, people would say, isn't it risky waiting for so long? What if the girl is snatched. Bros, that's a good thing because when you find your woman, the heartlock won't let her just get snatched from you.

You may be the first to fall in love with her, take time to get her in love with you before even telling her about relationship, so keep your cool, bro. But, when you find a lady that is already in love with you, well the process might be a lot easier than the latter.


"Na them dey rush us no dey for love matter o"

COACH