Foundation matters.

I don't know what you are currently building your relationship on but, I need you to be conscious of the fact that whichever foundation your relationship is built on will determine the quality and durability of the relationship.

Stop using money to woo her or him.
Stop using too many unnecessary gifts.
We guys have learnt that the most powerful way to win a woman is money, well you can win a woman that way but, is that woman really The Woman.

Some ladies will follow you immediately, not because of who you are or the love you have but because, you are an ATM. Always responding with a vomit of money. Think what will happen when the money is not there...

Or maybe you are building your relationship on hot romance, that "hot 45mins plus sex" that will make you feel so good and damn, such a great kisser... Now imagine after everything you are married and got tired. Maybe after a day's job, you get home exhausted, you begin to now dodge the "hot romance" that you enjoyed while dating... Let me tell you the message you are sending: "I am now getting it elsewhere, babe. I am already used to you". God have mercy on you.

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Take time and brood over your relationship so far, what foundation are you currently building if really you intend to stay together forever, will that foundation guarantee it?
Today, answer for yourself then, tomorrow I will tell you the kind of foundation that will sustain your relationship.

COACH